Family…Community
Monica, my twins, and I recently returned from a day exploring communities nestled in the gorgeous Caucasian mountains. As we heard new sounds of unknown languages and tasted things that delighted our taste buds, we also immersed ourselves in cultures and belief structures different from our own. On my ongoing quest to answer elementary questions about humanity’s history, I ponder: Do we want to be part of a family or community? The resounding answer is yes; our primary desire is to belong and be loved.
In this beautiful valley, I observed an aging population, with most individuals being minimally above forty or under 15 years old. Wondering about the missing generation, I quickly learned that many young people are migrating to the city for study and work, coming back briefly to visit family. I personally live this reality, with our four boys currently separated across three continents.
So, why do people move around? It’s both voluntary and involuntary. The younger generation seeks adventure and a better life, often prompted by droughts, war, and difficulties. In recent years, a shift has occurred as the agricultural rural way of life diminishes, giving way to a new multilayered urban culture connected by technology. However, alongside this global unity, I perceive a historic invasion of separation and loneliness.
Despite being surrounded by thousands, one can feel alone within four walls or experience solitude despite having numerous Instagram and WhatsApp friends. Community and family are disintegrating, and it seems we may no longer value the remnants of true family and community support found in places like the valleys I visited.
How do you feel about this? How is your family or community? Do you feel lonely despite being surrounded by many? Join me as we delve into the complexities of family and community in a world filled with immigration, nomads, and social media, often leaving people with a sense of emptiness.